On Tuesday evening I told my daughter that I realized that I was closer to 60 than 40. Random thought but a stark realization that I have less time in front of me than behind me. Because of recent events, my individual timeline has become a focus for me. A rough recent history would make anyone wonder about the end. It is only natural. I have made some observations after reaching an age that brings with it perspective. I thought I would share some of this perspective in the hope it connects.
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My capacity for crazy politicians is inversely related to my age.
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Harry Styles is relevant at all ages because he is right: Disco, occasionally.
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Being kind is an undervalued characteristic in our culture but the most valuable one. Smile and say hello.
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Sinatra can only be truly understood after 45 years of age. Before that you hear Frank but after 45 you hear the chairman of the board.
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Learning should be a lifelong journey.
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To stay young surround yourself with young people.
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The best personality trait that anyone can exhibit is self-awareness. Be bold and follow Socrates – “the unexamined life is not worth living.”
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Admit when you are wrong. Do this often and without prompting. It is not a sign of weakness but meekness.
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Compassion is a two-part awareness: a deep connection to another’s suffering coupled with a desire to alleviate it. One without the other is empty lip service. Getting older should not be an excuse to be less compassionate if anything being older should demand more.
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Each opportunity we are given is a chance to be our best.
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Surprise people by doing the unexpected.
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If given the chance to assist someone consider it a solemn duty, then accept.
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Yes and No are full answers to any question.
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If you entertain the idea that you have things figured out be careful because life will prove you wrong.
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Talk less listen more.
Albert R. Hartley
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